Hi friends,

How many of you are going through this phase where you are afraid to tell your parents about your boyfriend because you kind of already know that they would disapprove! Or have you told them already and are now bearing the brunt of disapproval" My parents are completely against the concept of love marriages, so when they will get to know about my neighbour/boyfriend of 4 years, they will kill me! Here are few tips to find a place of solace for all of those involved!

1. Don?t be pushy

Just because you have decided to spend your life with certain someone does not mean that your parents will also like that someone right away. Don?t force your decision on them.
2. Give them some time

They won?t say yes to your relationship in 1 or 2 days. It might take weeks or probably months. Give them plenty of time to adjust and admit to the fact that their little girl has found someone on her own.
3. Have a hearty conversation

Open your heart to your parents. No matter how hurt or angry they are, they will listen to you. Talk to them about the guy in your life and tell them everything. Sometimes when all else fails, a good and open conversation can really be of great help.
4. Don?t take a side

It is not a game. There are so many lives involved in the process. Don?t feel that your family is wrong and your partner is everything. Maintain a balance and never belittle your partner or your parents.
5. Answer all their doubts patiently

Your parents might be having a tho...